Dating
The very thing holding most guys back when meeting women can sometimes be the most elusive.
Our conversations, interactions and relationships with women can only ever be as good as our capacity to show up fully. But bringing ‘all of us’ to the table can take some untangling of old patterns, behaviours and “emotional blank spots” (places where you just feel ‘numb’)
These blind spots (the things that we can’t see in ourselves) can have women not trust us, choke our interactions and sometimes leave them feeling ‘creeped out’…
We give you the tools to get you aware of these parts of yourself – and ultimately will leave you with more choice and freedom in the way you show up with women.
Sexuality
Sex. One of those areas that has the potential to give us extreme pleasure, but can sometimes feel like it’s laced with landmines.
Some of our core insecurities can lie buried deep in the challenges we have around sex – which is also has it be the place where we can do some of our richest, most rewarding work on ourselves.
More than ever, we’re bombarded with images of sex – but even with Tinder, Snapchat and the thousands of hours of porn making its way into our browsing history, it’s easy to feel nervous and incompetent when faced with the rich emotional, physical and mental complexity that the landscape of sexuality offers.
We’ll teach you some cool techniques – but what a lot of guys get the most benefit from is the deep-dive into their own psychology that we have some rock-solid frameworks and roadmaps for.
Intimacy
Real intimacy is far more than sharing personal information or having sex and, while many don’t articulate it, most of us crave emotional intimacy and connection.
We will help you to find the courage and openness to share what you’re feeling in ways that will draw her in and leave her hungry for more. You’ll also learn the art of presence and how to “get her world” to create a truly intimate connection with someone you care about.
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EP 02.1 | Men’s Groups:
What are they and how do I start one?
Jayson Gaddis
The number one thing I hear from guys coming out of AMP workshops and in emails is: “How do I start my own men’s group?” I get it. I grew up in the middle of the country, where mention of a “men’s group” immediately raises... read more
The New Man meets The Bulletproof Executive
Dude, Two of my favorites in Men’s optimization…on the same show! These guys are coming at men’s optimization from two different angles. Tripp tends to come from the inside out with The New Man Podcast and the type of people he interviews. Dave is an... read moreThe Myth of the Friend Zone
Nice Guy. Friend Zone. “Let’s Just Be Friends.” These words still ring deep from my past. I thought I knew what I was doing. I like women. I think they’re beautiful. I always have. I spent years, well through high-school, college, and into my twenties believing that... read moreCan Laziness be an Asset?
I am a bit of a geek for personal productivity. I get lit up for anything I can get my hands on that can help me get more done in less time. I’d like this to be because I am super gung-ho to always be on and kicking ass, but honestly…I think it comes from... read moreFear of Rejection. Is it real? How to get past it.
Header image credit Charamelody on Flickr Casey here, I found another excellent gem from the AMP archives and want you guys to check it out. This one goes pretty deep and is all about rejection. You know, that fear we have that if we walk up to the amazing woman at... read moreIndiana Jones and The Myth of Confidence
I have been sifting through tons of original recordings and website content created at AMP over the years. It has become a huge archaeological dig, and I’ll say this…there is serious gold in here. I am the Indiana Jones of AMP content, and I want you guys... read moreEP 01 | So what is the Next Frontier of AMP?
For your Weekend Listening Pleasure, Don’t miss the behind-the-scenes recording of Decker and Bryan talking about AMP Men’s Circle near the bottom of this post. The biggest question we get from AMP grads is “How can I bring this type of relating to my own... read moreThe Why
As I write this post I am feeling soft. Humble. Honored to be of service in this role…a little fear, a lot of excitement. When Decker mentioned “the next frontier of AMP” in his last email, I noticed my stomach drop. That sounds like a huge deal…and I am... read moreThe Next Frontier of AMP
…and Deepening Community with the men who’ve been on this crazy-ass ride with us. Greetings AMP supporters and co-creators from almost every continent now. Decker here, Some of you guys have been asking, “Damn, how long you guys keeping AMP in... read moreAre you unsatisfied with your relationship to yourself, to the world… to women?
Most men have a sense (deep down) of what’s really possible for them in their lives. Even though they know that their jobs, and relationships could be far more rewarding, a lot of guys feel stuck in old patterns. No matter how hopeful or frustrated they might be, many men simply don’t know how to make the leap from how they are now, to how they want to be.
Authenticity can be your key to a whole new world of possibilities.
Looking at culture, there are a lot of fantasy messages about how men are ‘supposed’ to be. It’s no wonder that so many guys run around working so damn hard to seem okay, to appear happy, look successful or occur as confident. With so much attention on appearances, who we SEEM TO BE can sometimes feel like it’s way more important than who we ACTUALLY ARE. At work, at play and especially with women, few things will radically transform your life as powerfully as letting go of appearances and unleashing your authentic self. Relationships become richer and connections deeper when you know who you are and can express your deepest truth.
The Authentic Man Program is dedicated to supporting you in unlocking your inner bad ass.
For the past 10 years we have been developing the very best tools, trainings and information to support you in expressing your sexuality and your power. Our coaches, workshops, products and support materials are world class resources that teach you how to unlock your authentic self, so that you can fully enjoy being you, and make the impact that you want to make on the world around you.
What if I told you that your relationships with women can help you transform every area of your life?
A lot of guys are perfectly happy being miserable. Their jobs are “good enough”, their relationships are “good enough”. Sometimes when things feel “just OK” we might not have the motivation to make changes, to step outside of our comfort zones and grow in really important ways. No matter how “OK” things may seem to be, if you are not enjoying rich, full, juicy and exciting connections with women then you are probably ready to make some profound changes. You might just be ready to do whatever it takes to claim the relationships and the life you truly want. Guys tend to think of their lives as compartmentalized experiences. Career, friendships, family and women might all seem like totally different categories with totally different challenges. The truth is that the skills and understandings you need in order to have amazing connections with women (and even to have great sex) are often the very same skills and understandings that you need to to rock your career or achieve a goal. When you can express who you are and what you want, powerfully and without shame, when you can remain present and focused in the face of stress and upset, when you can welcome whatever comes up in any moment with integrity and truth… you radically transform how women experience you and simultaneously transform just about every area of your life.
Are you satisfied with things being ‘good enough’? Or are you ready to take your life, your career, your friendships AND your relationships with women to the next level?
No matter if you are having trouble meeting women, or are already in a committed relationship, no matter if you are thriving in your career or feeling a little lost… AMP is here to help you live as the very best: friend, brother, son, father, and / or lover that you can be. Thousands of men that have taken the dive and come out the other end with more choice, more capacity and more freedom in their lives and especially their relationships.